What Should I Ask When Visiting a Preschool? 20 Questions for Parents

You’ve shortlisted a few schools, booked the visits, and cleared a Saturday morning. You walk in, the admissions team greets you with a smile, and you’re shown the classrooms, the play area, and the art room. Forty minutes later, you’re back in the car, realising you forgot to ask half the things you wanted to know.

It happens to almost every parent. A campus visit moves quickly, and it’s easy to get swept up by bright walls and cheerful displays.

Whether you’re visiting a top preschool in Gurgaon or a small centre in your neighbourhood, the right questions help you see past the tour. If you’re still deciding what matters most, our guide to finding the best preschools in Gurgaon covers the bigger picture. In this blog post, we’ve focused on what to ask and what to watch for once you’re on campus.

Before You Go

Visit during school hours if you can, because a classroom full of children tells you far more than an empty one. Write your questions down or save them on your phone. And if possible, go with your partner, so the two of you can compare notes on the drive home.

Questions About Learning

1. What does a typical day look like?

Ask the school to walk you through a full day, from drop-off to pick-up. How much time do children spend in free play, group activities, outdoors and resting? A clear, predictable routine helps young children feel secure.

2. How do children begin to read, write and count here?

At this age, the answer should involve songs, stories, games and hands-on materials, not hours of worksheets.

3. What approach or curriculum does the school follow?

If the school mentions Montessori, Reggio Emilia or the IB PYP, ask how it shows up in a regular classroom. A good school will happily give you real examples.

4. How will you track my child’s progress?

Look for answers that involve observation, portfolios and regular conversations with parents, rather than tests and ranks.

Questions About the Teachers

5. What training do the teachers have?

Ask about qualifications in early childhood education, along with training in first aid and child protection.

6. How many children are in each class, and how many adults?

Smaller groups give teachers more time for each child, which matters a great deal for toddlers.

7. How long have most teachers been with the school?

Young children feel safest with familiar faces. A team that stays for years is usually a good sign.

8. How do teachers handle a child who is upset or misbehaving?

Listen for words like “calm”, “redirect” and “talk it through”. Be wary of any answer that involves shouting or shaming.

Questions About Safety and Health

9. How is the campus secured?

Ask how visitors are checked, how the gate is managed, and where CCTV cameras are placed.

10. Who is allowed to pick up my child?

The school should only hand children over to adults you’ve authorised in advance, and it should verify who they are.

11. Are staff trained in first aid? Is there a nurse on campus?

Also ask what happens in an emergency, and which hospital the school works with.

12. How do you handle allergies and medicines?

Find out who keeps track of your child’s allergies and how medicines are stored and given.

13. What is your sickness policy?

Ask when children need to stay home and when they can return. Knowing this early saves a lot of stressful mornings later.

Questions About Food and Routines

14. Where is the food cooked, and who plans the menu?

Freshly cooked meals and a menu planned with a nutritionist’s input are both good signs.

15. How do you handle naps and toilet training?

Ask where children rest and whether teachers help with toilet training if your child isn’t there yet.

Questions About Settling In and Communication

16. How do you help new children settle in?

Many schools offer a gradual settling period. Ask what the first week usually looks like.

17. How will I know how my child’s day went?

Daily notes, photos, a parent app or portal and regular meetings all help you stay connected.

18. Who do I speak to if I have a concern?

You should be able to reach your child’s teacher easily, and know who to go to if a matter needs more attention.

19. How can parents get involved?

Workshops, celebrations, open houses and volunteering are lovely ways to feel part of your child’s school life.

Questions About Practicalities

20. What are the total fees, timings, and transport options?

Ask for everything in writing, including meals, transport, daycare and any one-time charges.

What to Watch While You’re There

The answers matter, but so does what you see. Notice whether the children look relaxed and busy, and whether teachers get down to their level when they speak. Check that the washrooms are clean and child-sized. See if the children’s own artwork is on the walls, and not just shop-bought posters.

Pay attention to how the staff treat you, too. If they’re patient with your questions today, they’re likely to be patient with your child tomorrow.

A Few Gentle Red Flags

• Vague answers about teacher training, class sizes, or safety procedures
• Pressure to pay or sign up on the spot
• Children who look bored or lost, with little for them to do
• No clear answer on who can pick up a child

None of these alone means a school is a bad choice, but each one deserves a follow-up question.

How We Welcome Parents at Fuji Infinity

At Fuji Infinity International Preschool, Sector 62, there’s no admission interview. Instead, we invite children and parents for a relaxed interaction session, so your child can explore, and you can work your way through your list of questions.

Parents often ask us how they’ll stay connected to their child’s day. We share daily logs on a secure parent portal, send weekly email newsletters, and hold quarterly parent-teacher meetings along with monthly feedback sessions. Our teachers are trained in early childhood education and the IB PYP, and every staff member completes mandatory POCSO and child safety training.

You can also read our FAQs before your visit, so you arrive with the questions that matter most to you.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. Should I take my child along on the first visit?

It helps if you can. Watching how your child responds to the space and the teachers tells you a lot. Some parents prefer to visit alone first and return with their child later.

2. How long should a preschool visit take?

Around 45 minutes to an hour usually gives you enough time to see the classrooms and ask questions without rushing.

3. Is it okay to visit a school more than once?

Absolutely. A second visit at a different time of day often shows you things you missed the first time.

4. What if the school doesn’t let me see a class in session?

Some schools limit visits to protect children’s routines, which is reasonable, but they should offer another option, such as a scheduled observation.

To Sum Up

A preschool visit is your best chance to see a school as it really is. Go with a list, watch more than you listen, and don’t worry about asking too many questions. A good school expects them.

Choosing a top preschool in Gurgaon starts with knowing what to ask, and we’re always happy to answer. Book a campus visit at Fuji Infinity International Preschool, Sector 62, or call us on +91 81308 99188. And don’t forget to bring your list along.